Question: What’s a good flirty text message conversation starter for a cute girl I meet at a party?
Answer: I’m going to give you a flirty texting convo starter that uses 5 crucial elements you must include in your text. Flirty texts like this one will deepen her attraction for you and make her excited to see you again.
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So let’s say you met a really attractive girl at a party on Friday and you were able to get her cell phone number.
You had a fun time teasing her and doing something fun together like dancing, karaoke singing, playing a party game, drinking cheap beer or she dropped a chicken wing from her plate on the floor.
The key is to pick something memorable and funny that happened that you busted her on or teased her about. You’re going to play off that when you send your first text.
So about the early afternoon the next day or in a couple of days, whichever time frame you feel comfortable to contact the hottie you met, you’re going to text her to build on the attraction you created with her at the party.
You can read a lot more of my wicked examples of sexy texts to girls in my Texting Girls Q&As…to see what I’ve learned to do!
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Let’s say it was Karaoke night at the party.
Remember, you’re going to use something memorable and funny that happened when you met her.
You: “Hey, thanks for that inventive rendition of (whatever song title she sang, suggesting she did a bad job of singing it) What other talents should I be leery of?”
This is a push pull technique where you tease her and give her a question to respond to.
FYI: Remember to add you name to the end of your text so she doesn’t have to guess who’s texting her.
Her: “Ha ha. Well, at least I gave it shot. Can’t say the same for you :)”
She’s laughing, good sign. She replies a few minutes after your text so you know she is able to talk right now.
You: “I’m not saying you weren’t any good. I would just keep your day job.”
This is a fun way to challenge her or qualify her and women love this.
Her: “Ha ha. It’s fun. My girlfriends and I go out for Karaoke once in awhile. What hidden talents do have?
You: “You’ll just have to wait and find out for yourself.”
She asked you a question, now. Great. She is interested. Also, you don’t have to answer her question. In fact, by not answering her question you get her more curious and interested in you.
Her: “Are you asking me out on a date?”
You see women read into things and what you said is indirectly telling her that you want to see her. Women always give indirect signals like what you just said. Speaking their language creates connection and attraction.
You: “No, but it looks like you just did.”
Saying “No” to attractive women is powerful because they rarely get told no by all the weak guys chasing them and this really turns on the attraction meter.
Her: “Ha ha. Yeah sometimes I can be forward :)”
You: “Cool, I’ll call you later and let you know when you can take me out :) ”
This is your first smiley because you usually want her to be wondering if you are joking or not.
I recommend you send this last message more than 10 minutes after her text. You were texting back and forth and then you paused to let the tension build, especially after what she said.
By texting this way, you’re keeping control of the interaction.
Now, you’ve set the right tone that you are the leader and she is the follower (attractive women want a leader; a strong confident man) when you give her a call later.
Now you could let her take you out, but I suggest when you send a text like that, it’s only a test to see if she can have fun and go with it. This totally keeps her on her toes and she loves it.
Her: “Ha, ha. Can’t wait!”
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See how easy that was? It was short and flirty. You gave her mixed signals, you stayed in control, and it set the tone to create deeper attraction and get her thinking about you after your texting convo.
Now I want you to understand why this type of texting convo is so successful as your first text after meeting a girl.
There are 5 important elements that you must include when texting a girl:
#1: Women are emotional. Men are logical. To be successful with women, you need to communicate with them on their level, which is emotional. Women must feel attracted to you.
#2: You must stimulate a woman’s feelings of excitement and anticipation when you talk to her to draw her to you.
#3: Create some kind of feeling in your text messages.
#4: Set the right tone in your messages. They should be short, fun, and flirty.
#5: The purpose of text messaging is to flirt, create sexual tension and get a woman thinking about you. The more she thinks about you, the more she will want to be with you.
Use these five ingredients and you will be very successful at texting girls to create attraction and much more.
Learn how to text girls to create attraction and sexual tension
Before you get the number of the next sexy girl you meet to avoid sending another dull, boring, needy-sounding text message, learn how I was able to text a girl to turn her on and you can, too.
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